Here We Go Again!
by karenulijohn
Maybe I was being naive, but I never thought I would be posting to this blog ever again after my last post a year and a half ago. But, I should never say “never!” Recently, Harvey has been having back pain that was progressively getting worse and worse. He consulted our Primary Care Physician who, after an X-Ray, concluded that his problem was arthritis, and he should just learn to live with it. Fortunately, both Harvey and I knew in our bones that there was something terribly wrong. He has continued to lose weight, his appetite is non-existent, his electrolytes are not balanced, particularly sodium and chloride, and he has absolutely no energy.
About three weeks ago, he had a follow up appointment with Dr. Suhag, his oncologist, who ordered an MRI of Harvey’s spine. The results of that showed something that persuaded him to order a CT scan. The scan revealed two thickened areas in Harvey’s liver plus swollen lymph nodes. The Dr. was pretty sure it was cancer, but he needed to know whether it was a recurrence of melanoma or esophageal cancer. Last week, Harvey had a liver biopsy, the results of which we heard today. Esophageal cancer has found its way to his liver and lymph nodes.
We feel very lucky to have Dr. Suhag as Harvey’s oncologist. He laid out the facts and possible treatments, outcome expectations and time lines. He answered all of our questions and assured us that he would do everything necessary to take us through this challenge. The treatment options are: 1) Chemotherapy by infusion, 2) Chemotherapy by mouth, 3) Targeted therapy based on genetic mutation, 4) Surgery which is not indicated at this time, 5) No treatment. Because of Harvey’s previous experience of cancer treatments, he has a particular aversion to ports and pic lines and needles and infusion centers. So, he has opted for Option 2, chemo by mouth. While it is not as effective as the infusion method, the trade off is fewer side effects. The goal is to shrink the tumors, relieve his pain, and allow him to have reasonably good quality of life.
In the meantime, the cells from the biopsy have been sent to Foundation I which is an organization that searches for the mutated genes, and studies why they are growing. There is a 1 in 5 chance that Harvey’s cell mutation will match one that has already been identified, and a smart drug therapy has been discovered. The results of this search will be returned sometime next week. Targeted therapy is not a cure, but it has been shown to produce miraculous results and remissions.
Please keep Harvey in your thoughts and prayers.
Oh Karen sorry to hear this news. We will keep both of you on our prayers.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Karen, Please give Harvey our love and prayers for a complete recovery. I miss him at Rotary and if Steve or I can help you please let us know. Also, our prayers are with you also.
I am so sorry. Both of you are in my prayers and please let me know if I can help in any way. Hugs
I love that you’ve resurrected the blog. I hate that you have occasion to do so. But I went back and read through some of your earlier posts, and am struck by how well you write, and how you and Dad have maintained a true sense of humor through all of this.
I love you! D
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Karen & Harvey, I’m so sorry to hear this news. You will be in my thoughts & prayers.
Hugs
So very sorry to hear this diagnosis; our hearts are prayers are with you, Harvey, and your family.
Tom & Geri
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Sending good thoughts and hugs.
Oh Karen, Gary and I are both so sorry for such discouraging news. I can’t help but wonder if there is some sort of genetic component involved. Since Ruby had two different types of cancer, and Harvey has had two, and both Carol and Carl had different types… and no one else has had any… I’ve already talked to Mom about her working to become more mobile so I can bring her down at some point to see you both again… we’ll just see how things go for now. You are both in my prayers, for peace, comfort and a positive response to the chemo. Love to you and Harvey, Lynda
Sending prayers to you both. If you need anything please don’t hesitate to ask
So sorry to hear this news. Bonnie and I are praying for you and Harvey, that His healing power can comfort Harvey in the path ahead……..love…….Bob
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We love you all & are sending massive prayers (& virtual hugs) your way. I’ve added Harvey to my daily prayer group, which meets where I work. The more prayers, the better. XO
Our thoughts and best wishes are with you both.
Love – Sandi and Dick
I’m so sorry that the C has returned. Both of you are in my prayers. I know this is as difficult for you as it is for Harvey. I’m here if you need anything at all.
At this point, all I can say is that I am truly pissed off. And of course, we are here for you. Love, Joann, Mike, Emma and Bill